The monitoring of training load and recovery cycle of Wushu Sanshou athletes is a long-term and fundamental work for sports teams. The article introduces the parameters of resting heart rate, ventricular muscle contractility, arterial wall and maximal oxygen uptake VO2max as monitoring indexes, and designs a real-time monitoring method of physical training load data based on graph convolution network. Subsequently, through the flow level variables (BFL, TLQ, BRQ), flow rate variables (BFLI, BFLD, TLQI, BRQI), auxiliary variables (TT, TI, RT, RM), exogenous variables (RYN), and the causal relationship between the elements of each variable of the Wushu sparring training function monitoring system, we constructed a nonlinear system of the training load and recovery cycle of the Wushu sparring athlete Dynamics model. Using the real-time monitoring model of this paper to monitor the wushu sparring athletes, in the third minute of the experiment, the real-time monitoring system predicted that the heart rate was 90, and the adjusted heart rate using the model of this paper was 90, which was consistent with the actual monitored heart rate. It can be concluded that the model of this paper can well monitor the training load of martial arts sparring athletes. Through experimental simulation, the article concludes that both the strong physical fitness program and the strong training program can be beneficial to the training of wushu sparring athletes.